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Divine Self Embodiment  
Couples Sessions
with Raphael & Jelelle Awen

A sacred and safe space held where you can journey as a couple and 1:1 into deeper discovery...unfolding, exploring, healing, clearing, revealing, being and curiously connecting with any part/soul aspect who comes forward in response...leading to more clarity about your relationship

Free Intro Call

We've found that it is important to have an introduction call over zoom with a couple to calibrate to each other’s energy, to ask any questions about the Divine Self Embodiment and how we work with couples, to see if it is mutual fit and right timing, etc. Intro calls for 30-45 minutes over zoom with couples are available with Raphael and Jelelle for free and we also gratefully accept donations for them as well. 

We find that the Inner Protector/Gatekeeper aspects (inner defensive energies) appreciate the space to talk before diving into the more vulnerable drop-in meditation space that happens in actual sessions together, especially when it comes to being in relationship. Sometimes, we will offer that a time of more acclimation to our work is what is best through reading our books, or watching more videos or just more time/space to feel into readiness and resonance, before beginning sessions together. Intro calls are particularly useful for those couples who are wanting to have ongoing, multiple sessions over a period of time.​

​We will also talk with you about the minimum donation amount for your sessions and if you are wanting ongoing sessions as well.

In the intro call, we talk with you as a couple to get a sense of your awakening journey, where the areas of pain/desire are in your relationship, and where we might go with you in couples sessions. We get a sense together if sessions are right for you as a couple at this time.

We also discuss briefly each partner's responses to the questions below that you each send to us prior to the intro call, which you can email to or submit via our contact form. 

​* What drew you to Divine Self Embodiment/Raphael & Jelelle Awen and to request a couples session and how do you feel the process could help your relationship?
* What is your biggest pain/suffering about in the relationship?
* What is your biggest desire for your relationship?
* Tell us something about your awakening journey and how it has been for you (as an individual and in partnership).

Divine Self Embodiment couples sessions offer a sacred and safe space held where you can journey as a couple and individually into deeper discovery...unfolding, exploring, healing, clearing, revealing, being and curiously connecting with any part/soul aspect who comes forward in response...leading to more clarity about and openings within your relationship.

Romantic relationships between awakening souls offers the most challenging growth ground that brings up our deepest vulnerabilities and fears (our 'trailing edges' as we call them) to the surface. Navigating a sacred relationship with a partner in a consistently loving, vulnerable, and nourishing way for both of you is about being able to understand, connect, and feel what is happening within you as felt by different parts of you, heal the polarized dynamics within you, connect to and clear karmic patterns/configurations, access your higher dimensional soul bonding and then overflow that self-love and soul love into relationship with each other.

Couples sessions with Raphael and Jelelle Awen over Zoom or in person here in Central Portugal offer a new, fresh, and effective way to navigate Sacred Union. Rather than focusing on the 'horizontal ground' of the relationship as most couples/marriage counselling sessions or on 'saving the relationship' or on which partner might be 'blame' in any given moment, Divine Self Embodiment Couples sessions are focused around each individual and their processes as the primary focus.

Each partner gets an equal amount of time in the couples session to share their process and 'drop into' a part(s) or soul aspect(s) of themselves. This drop in may be related to or triggered by the relationship or a relationship pattern in the soul bond. You then become witness to your partner's process, which just naturally increases your capacity for understanding, compassion, empathy, and forgiveness toward each other.

We as facilitators and teachers provide a safe space for each partner to explore the depths of their vulnerabilities, fears, desires, suppressed truths, relationship traumas, etc. without fear or concern of retribution, conflict, or defensive reaction from their partner. We alternate serving as facilitator for both partners, asking questions and offering reflections in order to provide a sacred masculine and a sacred feminine template of loving sacred union to you.

We also take you on journeys as a couple to connect with the higher dimensional source of your Pairbond Source Field, bridge to Divine Union guides to support the relationship and each partner, bridge to your Bridal chamber for sacred sexuality activations/healing/upgrades, Divine Union codings, & relationship upgrades, and assist with conscious completion and closure of relationship if needed.

We have been living by and facilitated by this process of personal parts process and soul aspect integration work for over ten years and in sacred union relationship together for over 15 years, so our experience of the 'inner' approach serving the outer bond is the place from which we serve the love in your relationship.

The three types of sessions that we offer individuals are the same for couples as they would explore the same grounds in individual sessions with Raphael or Jelelle, along with the sessions with a partner. This process allow for deeper layers of negotiation and transformational initiations leading overall to:

  • healing of trauma from this life and completion of traumatic, karmic soul patterns  

  • increasing soul awakening and gift activation experiences

  • transaction of sacred union relationship, sexuality, & draw/transaction with your Divine Counterpart

  • unplugging from the 3D and false light/false god Matrix conditioning/programming

  • false ego deconstruction and embodiment of your authentic self

  • vital healthy body and detox/transmutation on a cellular level

  • clarity and support for your soul purpose expression and next steps to life

  • soul family karmic clearing and reunion

  • and ongoing embodiment of your Divine Self



You may have a sense right away of which area you need to focus on individually and as a couple, yet, you also will have a  free 30-45 minute introductory call (for each individual or as a couple) over zoom with Raphael and/or Jelelle (described more below) or both to help you get more clear about what is most needed, if the process is right for you as a couple, etc.

Sessions are described on the individual sessions page here in three main categories, yet they usually occur with an arising combination of all three approaches to some degree in response to what comes up and the 'type' of session varying as you continue along in the process in an organic way. 

Each session is in active and conscious connection with your Inner Protector and/or Gatekeeper (Protector at the soul level) which allows more access to your soul field, emotional body, and physical body with deeper transformation, quantum clearing, less resistance, and lasting results.

It’s good too to note that many of the areas of healing may not have even have occurred to you before as areas of healing, and that parts of you might feel a specific draw or repulsion to any of the items listed. It’s all good to take note of. They aren’t intended to overwhelm you. The growing list is a bit surprising to us too, to be honest. It is just what the DSE process has expanded out into over time to include as we've responded to the needs of those souls who we work with and our own processes.

The descriptions are intended to inspire you for all that is available and that can unfold organically in time with grace, with each piece being integrated and embodied as you go.




We have discovered that the most effective and beneficial way to work with couples on an ongoing basis is by meeting with them ideally together as a couple once a month and individually during that same month. So, in a given month, you would meet as a couple with Raphael/Jelelle and then have an individual session for the man with Raphael and the woman with Jelelle. This combination allows for each person to have their own sharing space to talk and be felt and supported. Then, you can come together again in a couples session with us next to digest and witness together.

A couples session with both partners are for 2.5 to 3 hours over Zoom (with a brief break) or in person for 111-200 euros/ or USD equivalent (price of an individual session times two) depending on what you can afford.  We understand that money flow and money earning is in deconstruction right now for many on the awakening path and want to offer our services at an exchange that works for you and us as a reflection of our experience, embodiment and worthiness. Please let us know what you can afford in the range that we offer during the intro call and we will also consider a lower amount if you are wanting to meet regularly and longer-term for sessions as a couple.

​Individual healing sessions are between 75 and 90 minutes offered over Zoom or in person at Raphael and Jelelle’s home in Central Portugal. Donation range per individual session is 55 -100 euros or USD equivalent per session, which is negotiated with your Facilitator and pre-paid prior to the session. They are described more here

All sessions are recorded to be shared with you and are sometimes shared amongst DSE Facilitators for quality control purposes/training. 

Types of sessions

Donations and Frequency

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